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How to get maximally excited sexually

The sexual excitement can be stimulated by many types of elements. Here you can learn about some tricks to maximize your arousal and make your sexual experience optimal.


HERBAL PREPARATIONS TO MAKE YOU AROUSED

On the market you can find many herbs or herbal blendings capable of increasing the sexual arousal. Some preparation are to be taken at regular intervals, for example each day. These products increase the ability to get sexually aroused by the proper stimuli, and also generate a general permanent background feeling of erotic excitement. Other preparations should be taken just before sexual play or applied on the genitals before having sex to give an instant physical arousal.

HYGIENE IS IMPORTANT BUT DO NOT EXAGERATE

Some smells can strongly awaken the sexual arousal. This is done in two ways. Some smell receptors in the nose have a fairly direct nerve connection to centres in the brain that are active when a person is sexually aroused. When something trigger these smell receptors, an immediate sexual interest and arousal is the result..

The body itself secrete substances with smalls having the capacity to awake erotic moods and feelings. However, the body also produce wastes and secretions that have the opposite effect in a too great amount.

The proper degree of washing and hygiene is therefore necessary to get maximally aroused. The body should be cleaned some time before sex. But a too massive use of soap or cleaning media and a thorough wash just before the sexual act can was away exciting bodily scents.

EROTIC SMELLS AND PERFUMES

A way of making both yourself and your partner aroused is using some erotic perfumes or pheromone preparations on your body. These preparations contain substances, so-called pheromones, that trigger receptors in the nose directly connected to the brain centrers involved in sexual arousal. They also contain substances that trigger sexual excitement by their consciously sensed smells.

Some of these substances give a distinctly feminine mark, others give a distinctly masculine signal and others are common to men and women. Therefore preparations of pheromones are often made in special versions for men and women.

Perfumes with flower smell or the like should be avoided. These types of perfumes may smell pleasantly, but they take the mind away from sexual thoughts.

You can also flavour the air in your house with appropriate flavours, for example by using exciting insences.

However, whatever perfumes, insences or flavours you use, do not use so much of it that it overwhelm the exciting scents your own bodies emanate.

USE OF SEXY CLOTHES AND MAKE-UP

You can excite each other heavily by using sensual outer clothes and sexy underwear. You can use clothes with exciting colours or with colours or shapes triggering your erotic fantasy. The clothes should attract your attention towards your most intimate areas, for example by means of lines or structures pointing that way. Your clothes should also visualize the shape of your intimate zones and the shape of body parts you find especially attractive. Your clothes should look like an invitation to erotic activities, but without looking too vulgar. Avoid heavy or voluminous clothes looking like an armament. Such clothes signal to your partner that you do not want sex, that you are afraid of sex or afraid of your partner. By looking through a collection of sexy lingerie. you will easily find something that you can use to engance your sexy look.

Lingerie with a silky appearance and silky feeling will often be arousing. Black and red are colors usually associated with seaxual attraction, but also silky wihite can be attractive. Clothes that look like some kind of chastisty device, but that are easy to open or take off will often add excitement. Lingerie with a G-string so that the full shape of your buttocks are visible is a classic method of making oneself looking attractive..

A careful use of make-up in order to strengthen and underline special attractive traits in you face can increase the excitement, for example some darkening of your eyebrows or some shading under your eyes. Heavy use of make-up will have the opposite effect. It will make your partner wonder what really is under that make-up, your partner will feel the make-up as a shield around you, and your partner will be constantly afraid of disturbing your make-up.

A simple, elegant and fanciful, but still natural-looking, heir-cut and hair colouring can also greatly enhance the excitement. However, a heavy hairstyle looking like a major artwork will take the attention away from erotic thoughts and thus have the opposite effect.

A ROMANTIC ATHMOSPHERE

A romantic atmosphere will help to bring sexual arousal both to women and men, but what characterizes a romantic atmosphere. First of all it must be pleasant. The surrounding things must be nice, The temperature of the air must be pleasent, somewhat warm, but not too warm. Pleasant music will complete the picture.

Furthermore, the setting must be such that the concentration of the loving partners will be concentrated on each other: The light in the surroundings should be dimmed, and with a somewhat stronger light upon the loving persons. Sounds from the surroundings must not be too strong..

STIMULATING DRINKS OR FOOD

Drinks, food and spices with a taste or smell remaining of exciting secretions from the human body, can also be used to waken the sexual arousal, for example the spices cinnamon and cardamom.

Coffee or tea stimulate the activities of the central nervous system, and thus also the sexual excitement. A cup or cooffee or tea before the sexual act will often greatly add to the sexual lust.

AROUSING PICTURES OR VIDEOS

Looking at pictures in an erotic magazine or at a erotic video can boost your sexual excitement by remaining you about the things you can experience during the sexual act. The best erotic pictures or videos are those that gives you new ideas of things to do, However, the ideas must be realistic, something you are able to repeat together with your lover.

Pictures made in an artistic ways that show beautiful and intriguing body conours and positions without being too detailled and explicite are often the most arousing. This is because such pictures stimulate your fantacy. Erotic drawings of an artistically high quality are also highly arousing, especially drawings made in a stylistic way to emphacize sexualy attracting conours.

Drawings, photographs or videos showing naked or nearly neked athletes, dancers or swimmers can be very exciting, also ehen the works are not made in orther to excite sexually in the first place.

THE ROLE OF THE FOREPLAY

The foreplay is important to increase your excitement maximally, and there are many things you can include in the foreplay. Classical ingredients in the foreplay both when you are still clothed and later in your naked state are kisses and caresses. You should always take your time to kiss and cares each other, but you should also use tour fantasy and play with each other in steadily new ways.

You can for example gently unclothe each other instead of each of you take off one's own clothes. Then you can gently massage each other's bodies using a massage oil or ointment with an arousing scent. During the massage or caresses you gradually get closer to the erotic zones of the body, and eventually stimulate the most intimate zones by gentle massage or gentle exploring by your fingers..

During the foreplay it is often natural that one of you take a leading role, but you should try to shift being the leader, either from time to time or during different faces in the sexual act.

SEXUAL MASSAGE

Massage can be a good way of enhancing your sexual excitement. The massage will help you to relax and take away the daily tension and worries. When these disturbing elements are pacified, your mind have place to sexual thoughts and feelings. Then the massage will stimulate the feelings and reactions in your erotic zones. When massaging, begin very gently and increase the intensity gradually. Also aproach the most intimate zones of your body gradually. However, do not massage too systematically. Use your fantacy and do some surprizing movements.

Sensual body massage shall not necessarily have the aim of making you aroused sexually in the first place. The aim can just be to meke you relaxed and feel the pleasure of being handled gently at all areas of your body. You can also be good with your intimate body parts without having the firm purpose of making yourself excited. Such gently massage will however often wake your sexual lusts and develop into more explicite sexual activities.

OILS AND OINTMENTS FOR SEXUAL STIMULATION

On the market you can find a lot of oils or ointments you can use during erotic massage that have an arousing scent and a pleasurable consistency. The oil makes the fingers glide more smoothly against the zones you massage and increase the pleasure during the massage. Some of these oils are to be used on greater body parts.

Other oils are especially made to use in the most intimate body zones. These oils will give lubrication to ease caresses by the fingers and  intercourse, but will also often have ingredients that directly stimulate good feelings and sexual reactions, for example enhancing the erections of the penis, enhancing the engorgement of the female lips and clitoris, increasing the vaginal secretions.

 

HOW CAN YOU KNOW THAT A PERSON IS SEXUALLY EXCITED

By sexual excitement of a person meny specific signs can be observed: The skin gets red, especially on the face, due to increased filling of blood in the vessels. The person is breathing faster. The person gets higher puls frequency, sometimes this can be felt or heard on the heart beats. The pupils widen. The muscles i some body parts gets more tense, for example in the tighs, but other body parts can get more relaxed. The breast nipples and the area around get more tense. The glands in the genitals and in other sensual body parts excrete more erotic scents so you often can smell the arousal of the person.

A man gets swelling in his penis and in his scrotom and the whole area between te legs, but not necessarily full erection. Smlime may sieve out of his pee-hole.

A woman will also get swelling in her genital areas like her genital lips and clitoris, and swelling of her breast. The secretions in her vagina increases and she gest wet.