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Tips for intimte stimulation of a women - how to tease up a woman's physical feelings

Here are some simple tricks and manipulations a male or female partner can use to stimulate the girlfriend mentally and physically. The physical stimulative techiques can also be used by a woman when she satisfies herself.

Women are individual persons with a wide variety of preferances, therefore the advices below are just hints. The most important preliminary both the man and the woman should do is to listen to each other and talk with each other about their sexual wishes. Sometimes these do not come together totally. In that case they should try to meet each other halfway.

A woman often prefere a more gradual approach than a man with much more romanization and foreplay before the direct physical act, and a man should generally use a gradual approach. But beware that this preferance for a gradual approach do not hold for every woman, so be prepared for surprizes.

The most sensitive areas of a woman is the clitoris, the area around the vaginal opening, the G-spot that is in her inside above her vagina and around her urethra, the rectal surroundings and the breast nippples. Howver the best feelings in these zomes comes when the woman allready is aroused by a more general caress and when her cunt has become wet so that fingering and penetration with the penis do not cause unplaeasant friction. Therefore it is usually best to begin by handling her with a cosy attitude and genaral caressing to tease her up and then gradually approaching her most intimate and senitive spots.

It is often wise to begin your meeting with a sensual meal. Such a meal will have dishes that are strongly and aromatically spiced with spices like cayenne, nutmeg, cardamom, ginger and cinnamon. A little good wine can add excitement, but beware that too much alcohol is not good before you have sex. Yoy should end your meal with some spiced desert combined with some strong and good coffee or tea. Cinnamon is a good spice to have in your dessert, since this spice has a higly arousing scent.

The athmosphere in the room where you have sex is important. The room should be tidy. There hould be pleasurable colors. The bed where you lay must be confortable. The room must be pleasurably warm. Some relaxing, but at the same time exciting music can greatly contribute to the right athmosphere.

You should first have a foreplay where you caress each others bodies and generally circle steadily nearer to the intimate body parts.

When circling around with your hands steadily nearer to her pussy, gently massage her lower stomack area in the direction from her pussy and outwards so that her pussy lips very genty and repeatedly are spread a little apart.

And when circeling around steadily nearer her butt cleft, gently massage her buttock cheecks in the direction from her ass cleft and outwards so that her cleft very gently and repeatedly is spread open.

When you are in the right mood, you can then use a lot of intimate techiques for direct physical stimulation.

Just spread her pussy lips apart with your fingers and put them together again. Repat this a couple of times. You must spread them so har that her openings are stretched, but not so furmly that it hurts.

Spred her buttcock cheecks apart stretcheng her asshole. Hold them spread a couple of seonds, then take them together again. This is a techique the woman also can do on the man.

Put your finger into her navel. Massage the inner walls of her navel with rotating movements. Finger the bottom of her navel with varying degree of pressure. The navel is an erotic centre with connections to her pussy and clitoris. This fingering will therefore not only make her feel exciting tickles inside and around her navel, but also all the way down to her pussy and especially in her clitoris. A man will get the same reacton fown to the tip of his penis with this kind of stimulation, and she can do the same to her man.

Let a finger glide from her navel down the mid of her lower stomach to her pussy lips. Glide your finger inn between the upper part of her pussy lips so that you can feel her clitoris. Gently massage her clitoris with small movements up and down some times before you withdraw your finger the same way.

Spred open and close the upper parts of her pussy lips many times after each other. Gently stretch when you spread them out so that the area around her clitoris is stretched. Gently squeese when you close her lips so that her clitoris feels a gentle pressure.

When you are in position to it, reach around her body with your arms. Let your hands glide down her back to the her buttocks. Let a finger glide in between the upper parts of her cheeks and ticle with your fingers at the area just above her rectal opening. Then let your hands glide further down and  grab around her butt cheecks with both your hands. Caress her cheecks some while, then grab a little firmer and spread her cheecks apart stretching gently her anal area. With her buttock cheecks stretched apart, you can now reach with a finger or two in between her cheecks and tickle her anal area.

Bend the woman's legs up and spread them apart so that her pussy lips and her buttock cheeks are spread apart, exposing her intimate holes. This will strech the areas around the vaginal opening and her asshole and thereby greatly stimulate her intimat lust zones. You can use this techique to expose her for further stimulation by fingering her most intimate areas or to ready her for penetration by your penis. But you can also choose to do so just to stimulate her and then put her legs together and straight again. To be spread out and put toghether again this way give a very strong stimulation of both physical and psychological kind.

Let the woman lay at her side with her back to you. Bend up the uppermost of her legs, so that her intmate areas are stretched. Let her other leg lie straight out. Then spread her buttock cheecks with your fingers, and then caress the area around her asshole with your finger tips. Finger the point just in front of her anus with varying degree of pressure. Also this is something a woman also can do to her man. As the next step you can choose to penetrate her vagina with your penis, or her anus if this is something she likes, or you can proceed just by stimulating her with your hands.

A variation of the stimulation techiques explained is as follows: Spread her open with your hands and fingers as described. But stimulate the most intimate points with your tongue insted of using your finger tips.

The described stimulation techiques feel so good and can make the woman so aroused that she wants you never to stop, but just go on until she has reached a full orgasm. You must not keep the manipulation so long that she begins to demand that you just go on until orgasm. Then the fun will soon stop. Use them just so long thet you teese her up, and gives her some intense pleasure, but do not let the stimulation go on until she demands of you to proceed to orgasm.