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TIPS FOR ANAL AND RECTAL MASTURBATION

When thinking about masturbation, one usually thinks about men and boys playing with their penis, and women and girls having fun with their clitoris, intimate lips and vagina. However, the anal area and rectum have potetial for very strong feelings of pleasure, and this potetial can be used as base for very exciting masturbation.

The rectal area is somewhat different from the genital organs. In the rectal area, you often will get the strongest feelings if you relax, and perform a very gentle play. A hard and hasty play will often make the strong feelings go away. However, different degrees of stretching of the butt area and rectal opening, do not produce feelings of different strength, but the feelings will attain very different flavour. Here are presented some tips about ways of playing with your anus, rectum and anal area.

Just relax and feel the play in your rectal zone and your buttock area

In the beginning, just lay down naked under a light carpet, for example at your side and in a stable position. Then close your eyes and just relax. Take special care to relax your rectal zone. Do not think about anything. Just breath relaxed, regularly and without any tension. Very few people take their time for such a relaxation, but if you do, you will experience some real estounishing things.

A lot of pleasureable feelings will creep up in all parts of your body, and the strongest of these feelings emanate from the rectal area and spread through your pelvic zone, down in your thighs and up inside your belly.

You may also feel some gentle rhythmic contractions in your rectal opening and your pelvic area, often in synchronization with your breath, and these causes waves of pleasure spreading out from the rectal zone. These contractions are gentle natural movements that have the purpose of supporting the flow of body fluids within your body, and they occur in all parts of your body, but are most clearly felt in your rectal area. People are however mostly not aware of these contractions, and they may also be disturbed because of a stressful life and an unhealthy bodily tension.

Stimulate yourself by squeesing with your rear muscles

Then you can try to voluntraily contract your anal muscles in a rhythmical fashion. First very gently, but gradually a little harder and deeper, and eventuelly you pull your anal opening as deep inside your butt cleft as possible, but without really straining. Try to contract your muscles in synchronisation with these original authomatic movements. As you gradually increase your contractions, you will feel waves of intense pleasure build up in your rear region, and often you get a sort of orgasmic reaction in your rear zones. But these orgasmic peaks do not make you exhausted or tired as a genital orgasm can do.

Not only the muscles near your rectal hole can be used to stimulate yourself, but also your buttock muscles. Lay down on your back with straight legs. Then squeese your buttock muscles together. Hold them tightly sqeesed together some time, and thern relax. You will feel some exciting and strange feelings in your buttock cheeks. Then squeese your buttocks tightly  together and relax many times. Each time you squeese, hold them tight until that feeling appears, before you relax. The feelings will increase by each squeese until you get to a sort of orgasmic peak. After you have relaxed, this funny feeling will continue for a long time, even if you do not squeese any more.

The joy of fingering with your rear zones

Then relax again. Now you can begin using your fingers to play with your anus and butt area. Spread your butt checks apart so that the area around your intimate rear opening  is gently stretched. The stretching gives a funny sharp pleasure that remain also after you have slipped the stretch.

Now move your fingers more closely to your rear opening, caress the inside of your cheeks, with different degree for force, first extremely gently, but then somewhat firmer, and you will feel a whol scale of sensations as you changes the degree of pressure.

Now get even closer to your hole with your fingers. Your rectal opening is not entirely round. It is actually a short slit, and the sides of your opening has the form of two intimate lips.  Spread your rear lips gently open with your fingers, so that the skin in your hole is a little stretched, or pull one of the lips aside. Do this sevral times. Again you will build up a strong funny pleasure.

Then very gently point your finger tip at your rear hole. Then make gentle circular movements to stimulate the area in the outer part of your anus. First do it so gently that only the skin is caressed with your finger tip, but gradually press harder so that also the underlaying spincter muscle is massaged. Also move your finger tips forewards and backwards, and from side to side. You will feel a joyous cripple that gradually intensivates, and attains different characters as you variate the forse and type of movement.

Using your finger deeper in your most intimate opening

Then it is time to go deeper. Having caressed your rear area in a lot of ways, your opening is relaxed and longing for an even deeper experience. You can now lubricate your finger and gently insert it into tour rectal opening. Do not use any great force, just press against your opening with some firmness. Your opening will now often reflexively relax, and your finger glides in.

In the begining, just let your finger stay still, and lay realxed and enjoy the feelings of having your finger stretch your rear hole open. But then move your finger slightly inwards and outwards, just enough to stretch the inner skin of your anus. Then proceed by making rotating movements with your finger.

Press your finger inn as deep as you can, then caress the inner wall of your rectum just inside your anus with your finger tip. By pressing and caressing upwards and forewards with your finger tips, you can now feel your prostate gland. Press many times rhytmically towards the prostate, first gently, but then gradually firmer. You will feel an intense sensation build up that spread forewards into your genital zone.

A women doing the same wil in this way stimulate the area between her rectum an her vagina, and the pressure will proceed uwards and forewards into her G-spot, and make her feel the same intense sensations spreading into her genitals. 

Masturbaring your anus and rectum with a dildo

The deep areas of the rectum has some sensual areas that give feelings of a very deep and intimate nature when they are stimulated. By stimulating these areas, you will feel in a strange way that you actually are masturbating your whole pelvic area and all your internal zones far up inside your body.

To reach these zones you can gently insert a dildo through your rear hole deep into your rectum. When reaching the deeper parts, just lay still for some time and feel the stimulation from the tip of the dildo and from the dildo stretching out your anal spincter muscles. You will feel a deep ecstacy emerge from your innermost intimate body zones and spreading outwards and upwords in your body, and in a way touch your mind in a total manner.

Then move the dildo gently a little in and out, and try to touch different spots in your innermost zones with the dildo tip. These innernmost points give a wounderful ticle when stimulated, and there will be a remaining pleasure in these zones also after the direct stimulation, and from these ticling spots ecstatic waves of pleasure spread out into your body.

Going really deep and reach secret spots high up in your rear zones

By using anal beads or other flexible toys, you can reach past the rectal area and stimulate areas in the deep rectum and even the end part of your colon. The deep rectum and colon have a lot of secret sensual points after another of a great sexual valour, one further up then the other.

These sensual spots actually play a role in your daily life. All the daily functions of your pelvic region makes you feel joy and pleasure if they are not disturbed in some ways. Much of this stedy pleasure in your pelvic region originate in these deep zones in the rectum and colon, or the immediate surroundings of the rectum abd colon.

If you stimulate these secret zones in a gentle way, they can give you an extreme feeling of pleasure and ecstacy.

To stimulate these areas, you insert the bead very gently and without any force. If you meet resistance, do not push hard, but pull the bead a little back, and then insert it further again.

When gently and slowly incerting the bead, you will tckle one point after another. but the differnt points give a very different flavour of feeling that mix with each other to give a funny and wonderful total play.

This tickling also gives a deeply touching excitement of a very special psychological flavour.

By moving the bead a little inwards and outwards both when inserting, when it is toltally inside, and when you pull the bead out again,  the stimulation of the points will be extra powerful. 

By letting the bead stay inside some time, but moving it a little back and forth all the time, you build up an extreme excitement.

The most intimate rectal stimulations are best performed when the rectum is empty. One may take a little enama before one begins the rectal masturbation, if one wants to do the deepest stimulations.

Let your intestins take part in your play

Stimulation of the rectal area often make the whole digestive system work more effectively. The caressing of your anal and rectal zones stimulate the intestines to work  more actively. This activity will teese up exciting sensations inside your tummy. The wole of your tummy gets sexually aroused.

You may also experience the need to empty the bowel when you play with your rear zones. Then just go to the toilet and empty yourself in a relaxed manner. Let the toilet visit be a natural part for your rectal masturbation, so do not haste. Sit on to  you bowel is well emptied, and then go back and proceed playing with your most intimate and sensitive body areas. After the toilet visit in a relaxed mood, you will also probably feel a warm pleasurable sensation inside your rear zone that adds to the total pleasure.

How to keep your legs

By laying in different positions and keeping your legs in different positions, you can stimulate your anal zone just by the way you bend your legs and get acsess to your rear hole from different angles.

You can try to lie on your side, having the lowermost leg straight out, and the other bent up. This will stretch the upper leying side of your anal opening in a special way.

Then you can try to laying on your side and flex up both your legs. This will stretch the area around your opening forewards, giving some other shades of feelings.

Lay on your back, bend up both your legs, but take your feet soles together against each other. Have your legs parted away from each other. Let the sides of your knees rest at a pillow on each side of you. This will stretch the region just before your rectal opening, and stretch your anal area foreward.

Having a dildo in your most intimate opening when you sleep

Try to insert a thin flexible dildo into your rectal opening before  sleep. The type of dildo to use must reach some way into your rectum, but not quite to the bottom It must be smooth and well lubricated. It must have a shape so that it holds itself in place. The dildo shall not stretch your opening hard or give you any sarp feelings, but be felt as a very gentle object inside your rear zone.

During the night this thing will stimulate you constantly and gradually build up a lot of strong pleasurable sensations in your rectum and your whole pelvic area. After some time you will feel ample streams of pleasurable feelings through your whole pelvic region that also streams upwards into your stomack.

The thing will not disturb your sleep, but you will have these sensations in the background all the time. From time to time the sensations get so great that you will wake up of extreme joyous feelings from the depth of your most intimate body parts.